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| Wang Can’s Heartfelt Life Tips for Women Choosing Love (Weibo) |
It’s not every day a celebrity wife drops life advice that actually hits home — but on 6 May, Chinese actor Du Chun’s wife, Wang Can, took to social media with a heartfelt long post aimed straight at the hearts of unmarried women.
And she didn’t sugar-coat a thing.
Opening with a powerful statement — "I’ve always felt that whether a marriage is happy or not depends not on the marriage itself, but on who you marry" — Wang Can shared ten pieces of advice she wished every single woman would consider before tying the knot.
And let’s just say… it’s the kind of advice your mum wishes she had the nerve to give.
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| Weibo/Wang Can |
Here’s a quick breakdown of her top tips:
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Love yourself first – If you don’t, no one else really can.
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Be financially or emotionally independent – Or both, ideally.
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Don’t settle – Seriously, don’t just “make do”.
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Agree on money stuff early – No one wants a financial soap opera.
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Get a premarital health check – Love’s great, but health is wealth.
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Avoid living with the in-laws if you can – Boundaries matter.
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Speaking of boundaries – have them. Keep them.
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Don’t become a mum until you feel ready.
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Trust is a must – If you don’t have it, start asking questions.
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Say no to manipulation, pressure and people who treat you like a baby factory.
Honestly? It’s refreshing to see a celeb speak out like this — especially someone who’s been under the spotlight herself.
Why Wang Can Skipped the Wedding Bells – And Has No Regrets
On top of her advice list, Wang Can also finally opened up about something fans have always been curious about — why she and Du Chun never had a big wedding.
Turns out, she used to dream of walking down the aisle in a fairytale setting… but life had other plans.
“When I was ready to plan a wedding, two of the most important people in my life passed away one after the other,” she shared. “After that, I just didn’t see the point. No celebration can compare to having your loved ones around the dinner table, happy and together.”
That hit deep.
She also pointed out how weddings often feel like performances for others:
“Isn’t a wedding just for others to watch? What a headache. As long as my family knows I’m happy and my husband treats me well, why bother putting on a show?”
Still, not everyone was convinced.
While many praised her clarity — comments like “She’s really figured life out” and “Marriage is like drinking water, only you know if it’s hot or cold” flooded in — a few raised eyebrows, wondering if Du Chun could’ve done more.
But let’s be clear: Du Chun has apparently offered to give her the dream wedding, multiple times.
Rumour even has it he once planned to custom-make her a wedding gown covered in 70,000 crystals.
But Wang Can? She’s not one to be swayed by glitter.
She prefers something small, meaningful, and without media fuss — maybe just a sweet thank-you post online and that’s it.
Du Chun and Wang Can tied the knot quietly back in 2020, after a freak coincidence — they share the same birthday — brought them together.
Soon after, Wang Can gave birth to their daughter.
So yeah, no wedding, no big splash — just a lot of mutual respect, a happy home, and a woman who truly knows her worth.